Mother Lilith
Where Shadows Become Sovereignty
About Mother Lilith
Mother Lilith is more than a name, she is a becoming.
A reckoning. A reclamation. A sanctuary created for everything you were ever told to hide, dismiss or bury deep inside of you.
Here, your shadows are not wounds they are wisdom.
Your rage is not chaos, it's clarity. Your softness is not weakness, it's sovereignty.
This is where the exiled parts of you are welcomed back as forces to be reckoned with, not fragments. Where all your shadow parts are in sacred union putting an end to the inner conflict. You are not too much for holding strong emotions.
Mother Lilith was born in the quiet aftermath of my own unraveling shaped through years of deep inner work, shadow exploration and the devotion it takes to rebuild from within. I created this space for those who carry the weight of their past and ache to live in deeper alignment.
Through shadow work, ritual, and intuitive guidance, I guide you to meet the parts of yourself you’ve been taught to fear and dismiss. This shadow work also enables you to uncover the power that lies within you that comes out with integration.
If you’re standing in the space between who you were and who you want to become while wanting to honour and integrate all parts of you then Mother Lilith is a safe space for you.
About me
I am the creatress behind Mother Lilith. Shadow walker. Intuitive guide. Ritual keeper. Herbal Medicine woman. Guide to the in between spaces.
My path has been carved by abandonment, by loss, by the slow and often painful return to myself. I do not teach from theory but from lived experience..
This work isn’t about becoming someone new it’s about coming home to the parts of you that were never truly lost, only exiled. It’s a return to who you were before the world, society, or trauma told you what was acceptable.
I walk with you, the self initiated seeker who is ready to go within, bring your deepest and most hidden parts to the surface, work to dismantle the old beliefs that are keeping you stuck in old patterns and embody your authentic self in its entirety.
Oana Sutherland
Ritual is central to this path not as performance, but as a sacred container for transformation. It bridges the gap between what we feel and what we embody, anchoring insight into lived reality. Through ritual, shadow work becomes tangible, held, and real. It becomes a way to honour the descent, mark transitions, and meet your edges with reverence.
I’m not here to fix you.
I’m here to walk beside you as you remember who you are.
My Offerings
Each offering within Mother Lilith is a ritual in itself that was designed to meet you in the unseen, the in between and the becoming.
Whether you’re tending your shadows alone or craving guided initiation, these spaces invite you to explore your inner landscape through intuitive structure, energetic insight, and somatic work. From self paced rituals to immersive live workshops and deep dive shadow alchemy work, you’ll find tools to unearth what’s hidden, honour what’s true and reclaim your power at your own pace, on your own terms.
Bespoke Shadow Alchemy Kit
A personalised written ritual crafted for those craving depth, clarity and transformation without the noise and the pressure of live coaching.
The Bespoke Shadow Alchemy Kit offers intuitive insights into your energy field, core patterns and shadow dynamics. It guides you through a custom path of reflection, healing and ritual integration. Rooted in shadow work, somatic awareness and energetic alchemy, this offering is for those who want to feel seen and supported while walking their own path, in their own time.
Lunar Shadow Work Workbook
A downloadable guide to cyclical shadow work, ritual and alchemy designed to be used again and again. The Lunar Shadow Workbook walks you through reflective prompts, somatic practices and archetypal explorations in alignment with the moon phases. Whether you’re navigating an emotional undercurrent or tending a specific shadow, this is your sacred space to return to month after month.
Workshops
These workshops are immersive portals into specific shadow themes. Rooted in ritual, somatic practice, energy healing and feminine archetype work, each one invites you to explore, unearth, and reclaim a piece of yourself long buried. Whether live or on-demand, these workshops are designed to meet you at the threshold of transformation offering the tools and space to feel, to release and to remember. All workshop dates will be released on Substack first so make sure you join the Mother Lilith Community there.